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Jan 25Liked by Jen Knox

Love the minute idea. I used to do that when I was taking long tests for college. At a breaking point I'd stare at the sweep of the clock for 60 full seconds, and when I returned I felt refreshed and grounded. I'm going to try this when I'm writing and start getting frazzled. Might be nice to do before beginning, too.

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Returning to student mode proves helpful in so many ways (though you sound like a more disciplined student than I was throughout college). It really is almost necessary for me toward the beginning or when I get distracted. Or counting thumb to each finger for a few minutes.

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Jan 25Liked by Jen Knox

Well I needed it! I burn out easily and saw this as a way to take a breath.

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Jan 25·edited Jan 25Author

I was literally that kid who would zone out and the teacher would have to repeat my name a few times ... Bueller? Well, till grad school. Lol. Nowadays, I got the tools, but the trick is remembering to use them. :)

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Jan 25Liked by Jen Knox

Ha! I was the anxious kid focusing with all my strength, at least with the tests. Not as much with the classes.

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Really? I'd like to hear your experience.

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Haha I shifted my attention after 60 seconds to the suggestion of reading something dark. West on N is immediately readable and surprised me with an ending I hadn’t anticipated. Fine story.

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Thanks for reading, Jim! :) Good distractions.

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Daily meditation. Not strict, hardcore, go-into-nothingness meditation, but silence and letting the mind just be. I'm far from an expert on this, but I know what works for me. Quiet mind. Even if only for 15 minutes. It resets me. All in my shed, an out-building on my small property. It's my sanctuary.

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Ah, you have the "bliss station" as Campbell called it. I love it. I'm working on creating one in my small house.

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Jan 23Liked by Jen Knox

I love this. I have a miniature hourglass (about two minutes) that my father gave me when I was a kid. I just got it off the bookshelf and set it on my desk so I can flip it over periodically and focus on the sand running down.

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Jan 23·edited Jan 23Author

How beautiful, Rachel. I love those hourglasses.

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My own fine space has been interrupted by ongoing sciatica pain. So I focus on that as a means of meditation. Distractions

I face externally are a brain suck.

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Pain slows us down like nothing else. I appreciate and relate to your perspective on focusing on it as a means of meditation though -- I just recorded a 2-part session about this due to my own reconciliation with chronic pain.

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Jan 23Liked by Jen Knox

I like this clock-face exercise. A minute seemed like five to me this morning. My quiet, creative space has been decimated by a broken pipe and a torn-up room. I'm working on finding that "space" not in a physical sense, but in my mind and heart. Writing must go on.

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The writing must go on! I feel as though that should be a bumper sticker if it's not already. Sorry to hear about the broken pipe, Nancy, and I hope it's all remedied soon. Home repairs are definitely not something we can avoid. If only...

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